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 by Judith Auslander, Life Coach of the Wise Heart Coaching fame

Our last post we talked about the importance of pulling out the PPP’s.  This time we will talk about how to be sexy at not only 64 – but at 40, 50, 55, 65, 70, 80, 100. 

When I get older losing my hair
Many years from now
Will you still be sending me a valentine
Birthday greetings bottle of wine - McCartney

 I have an article on my refrigerator, which I cut out of a magazine years ago – “Assume that your partner is not as critical of your body as your are.”  What a concept!  Yes, you may have

·        saggy boobs

·        lowered butt

·        wider hips

·        protruding stomach

·        age spots

·        wrinkles

·        chin hair

·        moustache

·        and all those other wonderful juicy things about aging -

but when you love someone, is it really about those things or the lips you have kissed for years that still turn you on? 

We are marketed to ad nauseam about how we need to improve this or that – we are never just OK the way we are.  For a change – assume that your lover is not as critical of you as you are about yourself – and love him or her, as you want – without fear. 

Now, that being said, I do suggest – especially to you guys – to clean up your act a little.  This means bathe, shave, avoid walking around in your under shorts, take care of your teeth, trim the nose and ear hair, use mouth wash – care for yourself as you would if you were 19 again and wanting to get laid.  Come on – no one wants to be tickled by nose hair while kissing. 

Ladies, it doesn’t matter if you look in the mirror and question how the guy you love could love you when you see everything that is wrong with you.  It doesn’t matter because he doesn’t see those things.  What he worries about is will you love him with his love handles, pouchy belly, and arms that lack the muscle of youth – and what about his “man boobs?” 

Come on ladies and gents – aging is part of life.  You know, I often wonder how dogs make it through life without all our human concerns.  A bitch has puppies and her titties sag and her belly droops, but she sure doesn’t seem to care.  She is happy to just go for a walk.  What if we were like that? 

Tomorrow’s topic: “Bring on the romance!”

Other posts in this series:

• Part 1: Passionate Purple Panties (PPPs)