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What Happened to the Passionate Purple Panties?
by Judith Auslander, Life Coach of the Wise Heart Coaching fame

As promised, here is a first discussion to begin our series on the topic called ‘Shift2Sexy.

Remember when you were young and in love – and ready for anything at any time? 

Ahhhhh!!!  I remember I always wore my favorite underwear for those “special” times– the special ones for that special date.

My PPP’s (Passionate Purple Panties!). 

You remember those, don’t you?  Maybe yours were red or pink with ruffles.  But you remember them, right? 

So, what are you wearing now?  No, stop, please don’t tell me, the soft white cotton undies that say “Hanes” on the label.  I told you not to tell me.  OK, there is nothing wrong with your Hanes – or your white undies – they are comfortable – I know – I have them, too.  But what about those “special” nights with the guy you love?  What do you think he will aspire to if you make him perspire?  Wear the PPP’s, slip on a little see-through robe, and watch the fire start.

OK, and I am not leaving you guys out of this either.  You want romance.  You want some kissing and fun – right?  So tell me, are you wearing your ancient, white – now more yellowed than white – briefs?  Guys, come on – don’t you know that women are turned on by cool underwear?  Go for color – go for sexy boxers – yummm!!!!  But please, do not sit around in them all day.  Let her undress you mentally.

The problem is that once you are over 45 or been married for a number of years, you start to get lazy.  Lazy generally means we stop trying to look sexy.  And we stop trying to look sexy because we don’t “feel” sexy.  Remember, sexy is more in the brain than the body.  If you think sexy – you become sexy.

OK, next issue (in two days, on Thursday) – how to look sexy – even at 64!!!!!